I'm 14 and still a virgin, but my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral sex. For a couple of weeks, my vagina has been itchy and red, and it hurts when I touch it. I don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about this. What should I do? Friction and pressure from fingering or oral sex can cause irritation in the sensitive genital area. But itching and redness that lasts for a couple of weeks also could be a sign of an infection that could get worse if it isn't treated.
Some people mistakenly believe that it is rare or impossible for sexually transmitted infections to be spread through oral sex. It is essential that sexually active people understand how STIs are transmitted and how they can reduce the risk of spreading infections. It is possible to contract many STIs through oral sex, as oral sex involves close contact and often an exchange of bodily fluids. Different STIs spread at different rates and through various bodily fluids. The chances of getting an STI depend on a variety of factors.
There are a few possible causes for itching after intercourse, like dry skin or an allergic reaction. Some sexually transmitted diseases STDs can also cause itching that may be aggravated by intercourse. Vaginal itching after sex that only happens on occasion is probably nothing to worry about. Not enough lubrication during intercourse or too much friction could cause vaginal itching.