Entering into the world of dating can feel intense, especially if you're newly single, or just beginning to date women for the first time. Understanding your needs and what you want in a partner can help you find the type of relationship you desire. It can be difficult to figure out what you want when you potential partners. You may be new to the same-sex dating scene, or maybe you're just getting out of a relationship.
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My heart melts every time. Oh, sweet girls, I SO get it. It wasn't so long ago that I was a wide-eyed young gay hungry for the answers to a slew of my pressing questions about lesbian dating. It's hard out there for a new lez.
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Despite loving West Side Story and hiking as a kid, it took me a long time to realise I wasn't straight. Every coming out process is different, but for many of my sexually-fluid female friends and I, unwinding the internalised biphobia that told us there was nothing gay about wanting to kiss our school friend's cheek and stroke her hair while we talked about boys was a confusing process. Once we were ready to come out to ourselves and everyone else, many of us were already in our early twenties, far beyond the sloppy teenage years, with no experience navigating girl-on-girl sexual tension. Which left us with a lot of questions in the gay bar: what if she thinks I'm straight?
Who could be better at seduction than a woman? I think we all have our own lesbian dating horror stories that we like to tell our friends as a warning of things to come. If we could just collectively raise the bar a little and invest as much in the art of dating as we do in the art of Facebooking, maybe lesbian courtship could be a brave new world. For the love of getting laid, stop telling dates about your exes!